The Little Bird Syndrome by Lisa Burkhardt Worley

Have you ever heard the saying, “A little bird told me…”?

Maybe you did not know it originated in the Bible. Ecclesiastes 10:20 says,  “Do not revile the king even in your thoughts, or curse the rich in your bedroom, because a bird in the sky may carry your words, and a bird on the wing may report what you say.” This verse is warning us to watch our words.

It is important to have inner–circle counselors who we can trust, but when we complain about someone else to an acquaintance or anyone who might listen, there’s a good chance our words could get back to the one we are complaining about. Why are we maligning someone else when we are called to love—even our enemies?

“You have heard that it was said, ‘Love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, that you may be children of your Father in heaven” (Matthew 5:43–44).

Maybe a little bird told you about something someone else said about you and you are seething. Hold on to that feeling for a moment and ask yourself, What if my words about another get back to them? How would they feel?

So here are some ways we can avoid what I am calling: “The Little Bird Syndrome.” First, think before you speak. Ask yourself, Are these encouraging words that build or do they tear down? 1 Thessalonians 5:11 says to encourage one another and build them up. That verse applies to whether they are in the room or not. Also ask, “Would you want someone saying this about you?” Destructive and harsh words can never be taken back, and remember, the birds are listening.